I really like this piece of advice, not for its brilliance, but for its common sense. Now, I just returned to Nanchang from a week-long conference in Hong Kong and Macau, and I got to thinking quite a bit about common sense and what it actually means. Common sense tells us, for example, that driving like a maniac is not only dangerous for the driver and those in his car, but also for others on the road. And if everyone drives like a maniac, traffic becomes worse than it would be if everyone drove a bit slower and actually paid attention to red lights and stop signs. The awesome power of this sense, which by definition is held by the majority of people (hence the adjective ‘common’), seems to be missing on the roads of Nanchang. Why? What can it be? Is it a true lack of common sense, or cultural habit, or simply a nation of drivers that learned how to steer on bicycles and think that weaving wildly and driving on curbs is the way it should be done? I can speak against the latter, as I have seen first hand how crazy driving infuriates everyone on the road and puts people in danger. Every taxi driver and local I've had the pleasure of speaking with has described Nanchang's traffic as 特别乱 (particularly chaotic) and harps on the relative comfort of driving in bigger, more 文明 cities. Why then, in a country and place where group is the foundation of society and harmony is its goal that you see such carelessness and disregard for others? Perhaps in the West, where we understand more deeply the concept of self and individualism, it’s easier to place yourself in someone else’s shoes. Thoughts?I have been living in China for a quite a while now, and I feel that I’ve grown accustomed to most things here. However, some things are becoming progressively more difficult and confusing to understand. Old Man Alex says, “If you talk to anyone who says they understand China, turn away as fast as you can and don’t look back.”
3 Responses to “If You Know It’s Right, It’s Probably Wrong”
Welcome back. When I was out at a big dinner with friends over there I was pondering the same things and tried to communicate it to them. I tried to explain to them that the chinese, due to all the chaos, never seem to "take time to smell the roses". Through interpretation, the response from one of the friends was that in china if you take time to smell the roses you would never get across the street. Pretty funny, but I don't think they quite got what I was trying to get across.
Hopfrog, I think if the person translating had decent English, your idea would have definitely gotten across. Most Chinese know the saying 停下来闻一闻玫瑰, which translates almost directly back into the original English saying. And I think perhaps the response you got was (and still is) pretty representative of Chinese attitude. For example, I was talking with some college students the other day and I was sharing some of my dreams with them. When I asked what kind of dreams they have, they responded, “We don’t have time to dream...Just study.”
Haha, yeah good point.
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